Reading Pride and Prejudice and Exit West challenged the way I view both myself and others. These novels revealed that growth often comes not through dramatic events but through subtle shifts in understanding.
In Pride and Prejudice, I admired Elizabeth Bennet not only for her wit and independence but also for her courage to admit when she was wrong. Her turning point is introduced after reading Darcy’s letter, when she reflects, “Till this moment I never knew myself.” That moment of self-awareness struck me deeply. Elizabeth’s willingness to revise her opinion of Darcy and herself showcased how humility is a strength. I have a hard time admitting when I am wrong and I pass judgment quickly. If Elizabeth did not take the time to reflect and reexamine her emotions she would have missed out on her husband. I realized I often resist change because I fear admitting I’ve misjudged someone or something. Elizabeth’s journey reminded me that real growth starts with vulnerability.
Exit West offered a different lens on transformation. As Nadia and Saeed travel through magical doors to new cities (from Mykonos to London to San Francisco) they also begin to separate emotionally. What moved me was that their drift wasn’t caused by betrayal or anger. As the narrator puts it, “We are all migrants through time.” Their love, once integral to their motivation to escape together, became a part of their past rather than their future. This made me think about how some relationships aren’t meant to last forever, and that letting go doesn’t mean failure. I’ve always seen endings as losses, but Exit West helped me see them as transitions.
Though Pride and Prejudice and Exit West are vastly different in setting and style, they both taught me how change is constant and how true resilience means adapting without losing your core self. For my final project, I chose to write reflectively because these stories reshaped the questions I ask about myself. Pride and Prejudice helped me embrace the discomfort of being wrong; Exit West helped me accept the beauty of uncertainty. Together, they showed me that personal growth isn’t about having the right answer, it’s about being brave enough to ask better ones.