Relationships in 2025
Hey bros, I could not be more excited to share some of my biggest tips for navigating the dating scene in 2025, I know most of you have been in some situationships, even stacking that roster cause I mean let’s be real, were either done after Valentines Day or hold out long enough just to have a banging chick on our arms for Prom. I know some of you are even in committed relationships- like dude, I don’t even know how y’all get locked down like that, Men are like eagles bro, we need to soar. But today I bring you hella good advice for all audiences to help you maximize the alpha within you to benefit the most out of the dating scene truly.
For Those Getting Back Into The Scene
Hey hey, I know some of you may have just gotten out of that relationship, maybe you got cheated on or even left for another dude. (condolences) but just remember you always have the best out of this situation with one simple word.
“Crazy”
It can be used in multiple ways! instead of self-reflecting on the reasons you may have been emotionally checked out and not been willing to talk things out, and taking even a sliver of responsibility for the downfall of your relationship that drove her to feel insecure about her relationship with you, she went to go look for those qualities in someone else, all of this can be deflected! It can be used in many different ways for example:
“Dude she was so crazy, I didn’t even like her that much, I stopped hooking up with her and she was so desperate she cheated.”
“You know I was actually getting bored of her, she was crazy anyway”
See it works, and can be used in many different ways to deflect responsibility, which will eventually foster deep emotional unavailability, that will manifest itself later. Or could simply be used as it has been for decades, to negatively impact women.
For when you really, do like her, but can get whatever you want if you make her believe it’s going somewhere
Like I said before, when you want to get back onto the scene, after you had time to protect your precious feelings, or maybe you do have a sliver of emotional maturity and took some time to reflect, and reset. Once you feel deprived of the validation you resented at first when things ended with your last relationship, you’re ready to hit the scene.
One day you get a notification that this total baddie followed you on Instagram, and after carefully reviewing, you hit up your friend who goes to her school to see if he knows her to see if you can get put on. To your surprise, everything you thought is confirmed! She’s totally in the clear. You ask your friend if you can get put on and to your surprise, she already has you added. You start talking to her and damn she’s super cool. You might even start thinking she might be cool enough for you. You make plans to hang out even, rizz her up.
All of a sudden you’re talking every day, yet that feeling deep down inside doesn’t go away. You start to pull away a little, you don’t know why she’s like so cool and super similar to you, she even comes to your games and gives you space dude you’re chillin’! At an afterparty, you can talk to her for five minutes then leave her to herself even though she knows no one and you spend 6 hours a day with these people. She sends you good morning texts, and when she asks you to hang out just push it off so you don’t have to hang out with her, because that makes you feel vulnerable, and you don’t want to be put in that position to be hurt again. So you pull away even more but it only makes her want you more, Sickk minimal effort and maximum give, all of a sudden this other girl I hear wants you! You’ve already pulled away and want to investigate this further.
She’s super athletic also, and you look hella cool together. Even though the other chick was bangin’, and you may have let her believe you wanted something more with her, this other girl lives closer, and It’s just easier. Choose the easier chick, even though you really want things to work out with the other chick, the validation from your friends is more important, although you hate to admit it. It’s okay, you can randomly get over your issues and date her. But still enter the other chick’s life whenever you want cause she’ll always have hope you’ll want her back until she finally has enough self-respect to walk away and accept you two will just be friends. Yet, you’ll miss the connection and it doesn’t compare to your non-emotional and easy relationship with the super athletic chick.
Just remember if you like to avoid how you feel, and still have a sense of control over your emotions, just string them along, give them girlfriend treatment, and pop back in once and a while to feel alive, but never lock-in. If you do, make sure it’s a low-maintenance relationship and you don’t have to do much.
Another Way to Get Girlfriend Treatment Without Having to Commit
Gentleman, when I tell you this one solution your lives will be fixed. With one simple phrase you can get a woman to do whatever you want.
“I don’t want anything serious”
Let’s be real, most women live by a code, and if they don’t, every underlying gender dynamic and role in society tells them this one thing. They’re the exception, or They can fix you. No matter what you do, however many women you have on your roster, even if she’s your favorite. Who cares if you’re freshly broken up with? Even if you hang out and talk, and give her the girlfriend treatment. She will do anything for you because deep down she believes she can fix it or make you change your mind. Even if she accepts it, she will still always have resentment for you and anxiety from the lack of security.
Working through over your emotional issues, avoidant attachment, and insecurities to overly communicate what you want with women, so you don’t waste their time.
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Anyways, that’s it, have an alpha day killas.
