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Date: May 1, 2026

Romantic Romanticism–“For Three Years I Dreamed of You”

Tri Goda Ty Mne Snilas (For Three Years I Dreamed of You) was written by Aleksy Fatyanov (year unclear) and popularized by Mark Bernes in the 1939 film Bolshaya Zhizn (A Great Life), a film about factory workers in the Donbas region of Ukraine.

The song is about the singer’s love for a woman. It opens with the lines

I should compare you to the nightingale’s song,
On a May morning in a quiet garden with a supple mountain ash,
As for my sour bird cherry trees in the misty distance
Those further most away, they are the most desirable.

These opening lines have strong themes of nature, comparing the singer’s love to birdsong and drawing that comparison into broader imagery to the nature of the Donbas region. The comparison is used in a positive way, showing that the author believes in the beauty of nature, but more importantly, the way that that beauty is reflected in the woman he’s singing about. The song is full of paradoxes that create tension as well, with lines such as

For three years I dreamed on you, and we met yesterday,

and

She is the furthest away yet, and the most desirable

These lines create a tension in the song that also creates a mysterious nature to it all, leaving the listeners wondering what their history together is like and what the woman is actually like. Additionally, this song is also romantic in the other sense of the word. His yearning for an idealized version of this woman clearly shows how deeply in love he is with her.

The song, along with many songs popularized by Mark Bernes, was also controversial in the Soviet Union at the time. The movie focuses on the life of miners in the industrializing Donbas region of Ukraine, and despite the loving lyrics, the melody of the song is melancholic and lonely, which were not themes that the Soviet Union wanted to portray in their media, especially not among workers. While the lyrics themselves don’t express a rebellion against societal expectations, the context of the song’s popularization definitely do.

A Romantic Analysis of “The Otter”

Although one uses a pen and the other a banjo over a hundred years later, the song The Otter by Caamp lies parallel to Ralph Waldo Emerson’s “The Rhodora” in a wide variety of ways. From the simple romantic nature of referencing the outdoors to finding a more divine, unquestioned sense of purpose, to just finding beauty without a purpose, both works demonstrate the full extent of the romantic spirit.

Primarily, it is abundantly clear that both works are about the outdoors. “The Rhodora” describes a flower, while The Otter depicts, shockingly, an otter. This depiction of nature lies in the center of romantic works, as a key foundation of romanticism is the importance of a human connection with nature. This in itself, while not demonstrating the direct correlations between the two, helps to set the base for the underlying commonalities that we will explore shortly.

One of these such commonalities is found in each works’ unquestioning nature towards a higher purpose or meaning behind life. In “The Rhodara,” Emerson claims that he “never thought to ask” how the flower or himself got there, and that he simply is happy to experience this moment. This same theme occurs in The Otter, where the Taylor Meier acknowledges that “[he doesn’t] understand how it all began,” a clear relation to the sense of peace in the face of a higher power as seen in “The Rhodora.”

The feeling of peace in light of a higher power is not the only similarity shared between the poem and the song from a thematic standpoint, however. In both works, the artists acknowledge the purpose in simply existing to be beautiful. In “The Rhodora,” this is the central theme of the poem. The poem itself directly states that “beauty is its own excuse for being” and that it is the Rhodora’s beauty that gives it purpose in the world. While not the main theme of The Otter, it is certainly an important portion in the song nonetheless. In The Otter, the artist describes the otter as “unfamiliar” and simply “floating in deep water.” This description of the seemingly carefree, purposeless nature of the otter’s life demonstrates how the otter solely exists for the purpose of its beauty, and doesn’t serve a true external purpose. The acknowledgement of the possibility of existing solely because of beauty is yet another commonality between the two pieces.

Although the form of the two could not be more different, the same messages resonate throughout the poem and the song. These similarities demonstrate the universal nature of many romantic themes, and how easily applicable they are to everyday encounters.

“Show Yourself”- Idina Menzel and Evan Rachel Wood-Frozen II

In the sequel to Frozen, Elsa sings ‘Show Yourself‘ as a plead for the greater truth about her powers.

The first stanza of the song starts with,

I have always been a fortress,

Cold secrets deep inside”

Off the bat, Elsa references her non-conformity, with her being the only one with ice powers in her kingdom. She was estranged from her sister growing up because she had to hide her powers, and Elsa knows that she is elusive and isolated. She then goes on to repeat,

Show yourself

I’m dying to meet you…

Are you the one I’ve been looking for all of my life?”

Elsa using a different point of view when talking about her greater truth plays up to a greater emotional truth- she is ‘dying’ to know the true source of her powers, powers that she recently just learned to accept, and its this recency that makes her a bit hesitant.

The choir that sings out to her represents how pulled towards the matter she feels, the distant voices call out to her in hopes of her reconciling with her power and where that power comes from.

In the bridge of the song, Elsa demands,

Open your door

Don’t make me wait

One moment more”

This is a direct callback to the first movie, when her sister demands for her to open the door when they were younger. Elsa feels guilt for how she treated her sister and is desperate not to repeat her past mistakes. This ties back to an emphasis on individual experience: she appreciates her past experiences but also grows from them.

Lastly, the song ends with,

Step into the power

Grow yourself

Into something new

You are the one you’ve been waiting for

All of my life”

This concludes the central idea of the song: Elsa, through the appreciation of her powers in nature, comes to learn how to appreciate the truth about her powers in a way that discards her past isolation from her family and loved ones. She addresses herself, because she is aware that the is not done growing yet.

The telephone and the daisy, humble sources of emotional significance

In both the Song “Bless The Telephone” by Labi Siffre and the poem “To the Same Flower” by William Wordsworth, both speakers express how small, simple things can bring a strong sense of connection even across distance. While Siffre focuses on a phone and William on a Daisy, both highlight the meaning to be found in the ordinary moments.

In “Bless The Telephone”, Siffre feels close to someone just by hearing their voice, and the telephone transcends being just a tool- it represents connection and emotional closeness. Even as he and his lover are apart, the simple telephone aids their love and connection, showing how something simple can hold deep meaning.

Similarly, in “To the Same Flower,” Wordsworth uses a flower to express his deep connection across time and experience. The lone flower becomes a symbol of shared human feeling, something that others have seen and even appreciated before, but to focus on just one humble flower is to give it the power to evoke a broader sense of continuity and recognition.

Both works suggest that deep connection doesn’t require physical presence. Whether it is a voice through the phone or a flower in nature, both speakers illuminate how the little things don’t need intensity to bring connection and emotional significance.

A Turning Point for the Woman in White

In the song “Margaret” (feat. Bleachers) from Lana Del Rey’s album Did you know that there’s a tunnel under Ocean Blvd, she emphasizes letting go of uncertainty, and transitioning to acceptance through self-discovery from the perspective of a real-life relationship. This love story connects to the poem “A solemn thing – it was – I said” by Emily Dickinson because they both highlight the internal conflicts and journey when surrounding relationships. 

In the beginning of the song, Lana Del Rey is giving listeners a visual experience. 

He met Margaret on a rooftop, she was wearing white   

Just like the beginning of the poem when Dickinson describes “A woman – white – to be -“, both of these lines from the poem and the song can hint at marriage being the major shift taking place. They both provide the perspective from a female and the different emotional turning points and turmoil’s when entering this stage of life. The speaker’s identity will forever be changed and gives an inside scoop, understanding, and reflection of why certain thoughts are circulating in relationships. In Dickinson’s poem, the speaker is in a state of isolation while reflecting on how she has found her own sense of identity in the midst of societal pressures and expectations.  

 In the chorus of the song, Lana Del Rey emphasizes not letting the force of external voices determine personal decisions.

When you know, you know. When you know, you know.

 This lyric is repeated not only in the chorus, but also in the last line of the song in a softer tone which signifies timing and knowing what’s right for yourself. After the transition, the speaker and the song’s mood is lighter and brings a calm energy which exposes a theme of peace. This connects to the end of the poem when Dickinson writes, “And I sneered – softly – “small”! “. A weight is being lifted off one’s shoulder. Nature brings the connectivity and romantic spirit that the speaker has been longing for just like the harmonies and bird noises towards the end of the song. 

Overall, the poem and the song exposes that there are some life changing moments when it comes to love that comes with a weight, however self-reflection needs to take place in the process to experience individual freedom and liberation in womanhood. 

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