Freud’s theory of denomination involves a father-son relationship, which is avoidant of women altogether. It explains how sons strive to maintain the same power-holding position that their fathers once had. Benjamin’s theory rebuts this theory in a very intricate, yet understandable way. Benjamin explains that the denomination can only happen when there is a party of doers, and a party of done-to. The done-to people in this case would be the women Freud left out of his theory. Benjamin theorized that there had been a general understanding throughout life that sons would assume the power of their fathers, and women would look for a new attachment after they outgrow the caretaking of their mothers. It was “perfect fate” that these power-seeking men would find a match in these overly compliant women. Benjamin suggests that the only way to end this cycle would be to maintain an equal status between men and women. The worst way to go about it would be to flip the narrative completely and have women in the positions of extreme power, as that would be hypocritical and a repeat of the past. To achieve this equal status, each person must be comfortable in being their own person and seeing love as an opportunity to enjoy another complete person. It must not be an act of submission and denomination, but an act of partnership and mutual respect. That is truly the main point of Benjamin’s argument about subjectivity and power.
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Gender inequity has been a long-standing issue in America for centuries. In the last few decades, significant voids in pay gaps have been filled between genders, yet sports seem to be falling behind.
The average female professional basketball player makes about $150,000, whereas the males make over $10,000,000. Currently, the WNBA is still a charity to the NBA, as it loses more money than it can gain. It is easy to blame the WNBA for its lack of interest, yet this issue reaches beyond it.
The primary income of professional sports stems from the viewers who attend the games and watch the programs. Like anything, widespread coverage is needed to promote interest in sports. Unfortunately, less than 15% of sports covered on television are women’s sports. It’s beyond difficult to correct the wrongs of gender inequality when the media downplays the importance of women’s sports.
In Jessica Benjaim’s theory of mutual recognition, she suggests that men and women must be seen as equals in a relationship to achieve the highest level of health. Additionally, she suggests that it is important for each subject to be a whole, individual self versus having dependency on a partner.
The topic of gender equality in sports can follow a very similar path to Benjamin’s theory. The switch to equality is not about flipping the narrative to a female-dominated field, but instead gaining a mutual playing field that allows men’s and women’s sports to function individually, as the WNBA is drowning as a current charity of the NBA.
Can Jessica Benjamin create gender equality in sports?